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You are not Alone

Even decades after service, the bonds formed in uniform do not fade—they simply grow quieter with time. Many Veterans find that once they step away from the structure and shared experience of military life, those deep connections become harder to replace. Yet the need for understanding, for someone who truly “gets it,” never goes away. That is why finding one another again matters so much.

Scripture reminds us in Hebrews 13:5, “I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” In those moments when life feels disconnected or misunderstood, that promise still stands. And often, it is through one another—through shared stories, quiet conversations, and simple presence—that we begin to feel that truth again.

You are not meant to carry it alone.

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Reflecting on Service and Lifelong Bonds

I retired from the army 51 years ago, yet I continue to reflect on the individuals with whom I served. Our collaboration, participation in team activities, and mutual support established a professional family and fostered a secure bond through shared experiences. However, upon leaving the service, those close connections are often lost; friends and family outside the military may not share the same point of reference as service colleagues, making it challenging to reconnect.

Seeking Understanding Through Shared Experience

When I wear my Army Security Agency hat, my intent is not to seek gratitude for my service, but rather to find others who understand my experiences and share a similar bond. Engaging with fellow veterans and exchanging stories provides a unique sense of camaraderie and reassurance that I am not alone. Proverbs 27:17 reminds us that "iron sharpens iron," emphasizing the importance of mutual support. If you feel isolated or misunderstood, remember that there are individuals who have faced similar challenges and can offer guidance and support.

As iron sharpens iron,
    so one person sharpens another.

Proverbs 27:17

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You Are Not Alone

Remember that Jesus promised that He would never leave us nor forsake us, so reach out and remember that you are not alone! We are here for you!

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Wayne served in the Army from 1972 to 1975 in Berlin, Germany, during the Cold War, and continued his service in the Army Reserve from 1975 to 1976. He is a widower and the father of four grown children; in 2013, he remarried and is now the proud father of an adopted, medically fragile young daughter who keeps him active and engaged.

He serves as an assistant chaplain with First In Chaplains, and as a chaplain for both the VFW and FreedomSystem.org, reflecting his continued commitment to service and care for others. Wayne holds an associate’s degree from Baptist Bible College in Clark’s Summit, Pennsylvania, and a bachelor’s degree from Indiana University in South Bend, Indiana. He is retired from 1st Source Bank.

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